Feast of the Holy Family
Ps 128:1-2, 3, 4-5
Col 3:12-21
Mt 2:13-15, 19-23
How has life been for us as a family in 2013?
How can we become a better family in 2014?
My dear People of God, today we give thanks to God for the gift of the Holy Family, the family of Joseph, Mary, and Jesus. We celebrate this feast today not only to give thanks to God and admire Joseph, Mary, and Jesus; rather we celebrate this feast in order to imitate them and build our families in such a way that God’s plan for each member of the family will come true. Today’s feast is an opportunity for us to reflect on our lives as a family. The question we need to ask is “How has life been for us, as a family, in 2013 and how can we become a better family in 2014?” Our Scriptural readings today are meant to help us answer that question. The readings remind us of the qualities of a holy family and I strongly recommend that we find time to read these readings again at home and have an open dialogue about them, as a family.
Our first reading from Sirach reminds us that a holy family is a family in which children fulfill their duties towards their parents: respecting them, loving them, obeying them, being patient with them, and caring for them in their old age. Is this happening in your family? Children: can we do a better job with the way we show respect to our parents and the way we love and obey them?
In his letter to the Colossians, St Paul reminds husbands
and wives, and children of their duties towards one another. He calls on members
of the family to treat each other with “heartfelt compassion, kindness,
humility, gentleness, and patience”. He goes on to advice the family: “And over all these put on love, that is,
the bond of perfection.” And let the peace of Christ control your hearts, the
peace into which you were also called in one body. And be thankful. Let the
word of Christ dwell in you richly, as in all wisdom you teach and admonish one
another, singing psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts
to God. And whatever you do, in word or in deed, do everything in the name of
the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him”. … not provoke your
children, so they may not become discouraged. Husbands, wives, siblings: How did you live this Scripture
in 2013? Can you do a better job in 2014?
In our gospel today we hear about how the Holy Family, Joseph, Mary, and Jesus, become refugees in Egypt: “Rise, take the child and his mother, flee to Egypt”. One may think that if a family is holy then that family should not go through any problems, right? However, Beloved in Christ, our gospel reading tells us that a holy family is not a problem-free family. Rather, it is a family that does not rely only on human wisdom to solve their problems, but turns to God for solutions. They look up to God for solutions. They do not turn their backs on God when things get though. They always keep Christ as the centre of their lives and he is the reason for all they do. Parents and children: As a family, how did you solve your problems in 2013? Was Christ the center and reason for all you did? Can you do a better job in 2014?
Finally, Beloved in Christ, your families will
become holier and better in 2014 if you make more room for Jesus; not only a
spiritual room in your hearts, but also a physical room. If you do not already
have one, please find a small table and make an altar, a physical space for
Christ in your house where everybody in the house can meet and pray as a
family. If we do this, we can stand and rejoice, as a family, no matter what
problems we face in 2014. May God bless your family and continue to make you a
blessing onto the world! Amen!
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